When we know how to make ourselves happy and love within positively, then we can love someone else in a healthy capacity. In my book “Mitsrayim: A Memoir of A Past Life In Ancient Egypt”, there were quite a few characters that needed that lesson to experience the true love they saw in other couples seeking the ultimate experience. But in todays world with so much illusions to what is love, we have to take a step back and realize the what, why, who, and how to gain our state of awareness and peace within forward movement. Choices matter to bring forth clarity you seek in relationships, especially, with someone your heart is aiming to connect with for longer period of moments.
But what if one day you wake up and realize that your happiness is more important than the usual daily grind being in a relationship that no longer serves either of you, what do you do? Relationships are difficult during these times, and so we must account for what we need that nurture our needs and aspirations by our choices. When we make our own choices to the things that makes us happier and better yet in balance, then we can move forward to decide to encounter on a journey with someone that has the same values.
Alot of times, in the beginning the values and objectives can seem the same with the other person but over time those values changes – and so shall you – how you can do that is focusing on what your needs to bring forth a peaceful mindset that you are in balance and not taking from someone else’s choice. In doings, you gain the perspective to know when to hold on or to be in position of waiting to when you are ready to enter a relationship that is healthy for your well being.
by Nichel Anderson